Showing posts with label humor. Show all posts
Showing posts with label humor. Show all posts

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Using Humor to Increase Your Self-Esteem and Your Ability to Make Friends

Humor is excellent medicine when properly used. It can help you increase your self-esteem by giving you the confidence of knowing how to be funny. Social acceptance will be guaranteed if you are the type that knows how to make interesting comments and how to tell jokes that will make your audience laugh.

Humor will always help you break the silence when nobody knows what to say in a social meeting. It will be a tool that will give you the power to always conquer your audience. You’ll be admired and always welcome in all groups.

As a result, you’ll easily make many friends.

Even though you should prefer to make fun of the various situations of your daily life instead of repeating old jokes, sometimes they help you accomplish your goals. In order to learn how to have a natural sense of humor and make fun of simple events, you need more practice. It is easier to learn how to tell other people's jokes, than to make new jokes out of daily situations.

You should use both of these methods to develop your talent. Even if you believe that you have no talent for telling jokes, you will certainly find your personal style if you look for it.

After finding your personal “funny style”, you’ll see how easy it will be to make everyone around you laugh at what you say.

I had no talent for telling jokes when I was younger. I would laugh without being able to continue the joke, or delay so much telling it that it looked like a novel. Nobody would laugh at the end because they would forget the beginning, even when the joke was really funny.

However, I discovered that I had the capacity to make ironic observations. I learned how to develop a natural sense of humor and make fun of simple facts and events, even though I have no talent for telling other people's jokes.

You may be more successful at telling jokes though, because your personality is different.

You should try both styles of joke telling. You can tell other people's jokes and tell your own. Either way you need to find really funny jokes.

Don’t simply repeat the jokes that everyone tells. Be original, look for jokes that have something special and really make people laugh.

Some jokes are very funny for some people, while other people cannot understand what is so funny about them.

You have to look for jokes that tend to be appreciated by most people if you want to be sure that they will always please your audience, which is composed of people with many different personalities.

There are many ways through which you can use humor to attract many friends. Try different variations of telling the same joke and see which way works the best for you and for your audience. Do some research, look for information about this matter, use your imagination, and test your jokes on a few people before telling them in front of everyone.

Depending on the results you’ll have, you’ll continue to improve your style until you’ll feel comfortable and your success will be guaranteed.









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Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Building Your Sense of Humor and Communication Skills – Self-Confidence and Positivism

You don’t necessarily need to be able to tell nice jokes if you want to be funny. As a matter of fact, you humor will be better evaluated if you simply make funny observations than if you keep telling jokes to everyone.

Perhaps you don’t have any talent on being funny. You feel ashamed; you don’t know what to say or how to say it so that it will really make everyone laugh.

If you are insecure and shy you are too afraid of everyone’s disapproval. You tend to believe that instead of laughing at your words people will make fun of you. This mindset is negative, and you have to get rid of it if you want to be successful in your relationships.

You have to build your sense of humor and communication skills. This way, you’ll feel confident everywhere and comfortable with everyone.

You can start building your sense of humor by reading jokes and funny stories, so that you may get into the mood. The jokes will help you have a humorous disposition.

You don’t need to learn them by heart and start telling them whenever you have the chance. Just keep a soft humorous tone in your words, using only a part of a joke in a sentence; or make funny comments about something in an ironic style.

This new talent will give you universal courage and self-confidence in any situation and develop your communication skills. It will help you find what to say to begin a conversation, or how to answer someone’s question in a smart way.

There are many things you can do to develop your communication skills and always show confident behavior. You have to look for this information and learn what you need to do. I’m giving you some clues, but there are a billion other possibilities for you.

Your great sense of humor in combination with your capacity to easily enter in contact with everyone will transform you into a special person.

The more positive you become the easier it will become to approach people.

Your positive attitude will have a magnetic effect in your social environment, attracting many people. You’ll be a very interesting person to be with!

You can continue building your great sense of humor by taming your tongue. You should never open your mouth to say something if it is not interesting or funny.

This means that you’ll stop saying silly things that are really not funny. You must also stop saying whatever comes to the top of your head just so that you have something to say. Better to say nothing at all then to say something that will annoy your audience.

Sometimes you feel that the situation demands an answer from you and you cannot simply stay silent. However, don’t say a word before thinking it through.

Start being very selective with the words you use and their meaning. This is how you’ll be able to filter what is silly or irrelevant from your sentences and say only what is smart and funny.

With time and practice, you’ll become an expert!







Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung's research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.


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